What are your put offs or turn offs in a relationship/marriage?
What puts you off in a relationship/marriage? And why if any reasons.

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☀Life Quote of the Day☀

Great opportunities to help others seldom come, but small ones surround us daily. -Sally Koch

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☀Life Quote of the Day☀

He who establishes his argument by noise and command shows that his reason is weak. -Michel de Montaigne

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Love Quote Of The Day ❤

“I have learned not to worry about love; but to honor its coming with all my heart”

NO CHILD IS AN ACCIDENT!

NO CHILD IS AN ACCIDENT!
Though it is an undeniable fact that children are from God, they don’t drop from heaven into the arms of parents. Every child that is born came as a result of sexual activity. Almost every adult who engages in sex knows that pregnancy is a possible outcome. In essence, before any child is born, parents are responsible, hence they should assume responsibility and plan to perform their roles as parents. Parents have no right to conclude that any child came by accident. Even if you didn’t plan for the child, it was not an accident. Children are a result of sexual activity; not an accident! – *Josiah B. Andor, PhD *(Director, Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy).

For counselling, speaking engagements, and further enquiry, contact Dr. Josiah B. Andor and the Paraklet Team through any of the following outlets:
Call/WhatsApp: +233-208905912
Email: parakletlovelife@gmail.com
Twitter: @paraklet4

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☀Life Quote of the Day☀

Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking. -William B. Sprague

WORRY WILL DO YOU NO GOOD!

WORRY WILL DO YOU NO GOOD!
It is impossible to think of life without any problems. So long as one lives in this life, problems will abound. There will be problems in relationships, business, finances, health, and several other aspects of life. What matters is not the existence or absence of problems, but how they are handled. Most often people tend to allow worry to take a better part of them. To such people, the famous quote by Śāntideva is worth repeating: “If the problem can be solved why worry? If the problem cannot be solved worrying will do you no good.” This communicates a simple message: It is useless to worry at any point in time. No matter the situation or circumstances, it doesn’t pay to worry! – Josiah B. Andor, PhD (Director, Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy).

For counselling, speaking engagements, and further enquiry, contact Dr. Josiah Andor and the Paraklet Team through any of the following outlets:
Call/WhatsApp: +233-208905912
Email: parakletlovelife@gmail.com
Twitter: @paraklet4

MY DREAM WOMAN; THE MATURED WOMAN; THE VIRTUOUS WOMAN.
THE WOMAN WITH THE HIGHEST VALUE!

A mature woman is no ordinary woman; she’s in a league of her own and she displays certain traits and qualities that the regular woman wouldn’t have. A mature woman is a queen in her own right, and these are some of the qualities she displays in her relationship.

  1. SHE PUTS HER RELATIONSHIP FIRST
    The mature woman puts her relationship first; she isn’t selfish, rather she’s selfless; she doesn’t only think of herself. She’s the kind of woman who values her relationship and puts in genuine and consistent efforts to make it better.
  2. SHE’S UNDERSTANDING
    She’s also an understanding woman and one who’s empathetic. She tries to understand situations better and do what’s right and necessary; she doesn’t think of herself always.
  3. SHE HAS DEEP CONVERSATIONS
    A mature woman listens; she doesn’t just have regular and above the surface conversations with her man — she listens deeply and her reasoning is also deep not at face value.
  4. SHE GIVES GOOD ADVICE
    A mature woman is also a good critic and one who’s ready to give her man sound advice. She tries to advise her man and steer him away from making the wrong decisions.
  5. SHE ISN’T A NAG
    The mature woman isn’t a nag; she isn’t the type to shout and bring down the roof. She understands that
    nagging hardly solves a thing, so she tries to pass on her message without nagging and criticising.
  6. SHE’S HONEST
    Honesty is a trait that’s fast losing its ground in today’s world, but a mature woman is honest and trustworthy; she isn’t the type to tell those little white lies or lie in order to cover up a mess.

7.SHE’S GENUINE
Men always complain that many of the ladies out there are fake, and truth be told, there are many fake ladies out there. A mature woman is genuine about her feelings; she doesn’t live a fake life or a life of pretence and she loves her man genuinely.

  1. SHE DOESN’T KEEP SCORES
    I’ve seen a lot of couples who keep scores a lot. In all honesty, keeping or finding scores or faults would only take your relationship backwards and create friction in your relationship. The mature woman forgives and moves on
    afterwards.
  2. SHE WORKS ON HERSELF
    The mature woman knows she isn’t in any way perfect, but this doesn’t stop her from working on her flaws and improving herself.
    The mature woman looks for ways to develop and improve herself at all times.

10.SHE KNOWS & UNDERSTANDS WHAT LOVE IS.
A mature woman doesn’t see love as give and take, she knows love goes hand in hand with grace and appreciates her love in that way. She avoids being in the look out for flaws in her man; rather, she fights her battles in prayer to win her love.

I tell you, if you have a mature woman in your life, appreciate her & love her deeply.

P.S: This piece isn’t targeted at women in relationships alone, but women who are also married and women in general. This piece doesn’t intend to castigate women out there or display a perfect woman, no! The aim of this piece is to make every woman a better and a well rounded partner, in spite of every imperfection one has.

I SALUTE✌ all matured and valuable ladies.
Watch out for that of the men; quite similar though.

Credit: El Crema, revised (2016) by Sebastian Eugene Nortey. #Love,Sex&LifeCoach
God bless you for reading, kindly share as received.

LESSONS FROM THE GOOD SHEPHERD: A LEADER KNOWS HIS MISSION!
Throughout the “Good Shepherd” discourse, Jesus plainly demonstrates that He knows why He was sent to earth: to give life (eternal life) to the lost. This mission characterises His entire life and it shows in His discourse. When they contested what He was saying, He boldly responded: “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand.” (John 10:28, NIV). It is clear that He knows what He is about and He is confident about it. Every leader must clearly know what mission he is to accomplish and he must be confident that it is possible. Leadership cannot thrive without a mission; and mission is meaningless unless the leader has confidence! – Dr. Josiah B. Andor (Director, Paraklet Love and Life Consultancy).

For counselling, speaking engagements, and further enquiry, contact Pastor Josiah Andor through any of the following outlets:
Call/WhatsApp: +233-208905912
Email: parakletlovelife@gmail.com
Twitter: @paraklet4

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Love Quote Of The Day ❤

“If you fall, I’ll pick you up, if not, I will fall down with you.”